First Presbyterian in Argenta

As a younger church (at least by PCUSA standards), First Pres finds itself in an odd situation. Our handful of older members who do not use e-mail and Facebook and Twitter are often excluded from a great deal of what goes on in our community of faith. Sure, we print out and mail hard copies of the weekly e-newsletter to those who request it, but our “offline” members still miss out on all the celebrations and conversations that the rest of us learn about and engage in on the World Wide Interweb.

Our oldest members are even further removed from our community since most everyone they “grew up” with in the church has moved on. And since about 85-90% of our membership joined the church in the last two-and-a-half years, there isn’t anyone around to remember the days when our elderly members were the ones who taught Sunday school and kept the books and helped the homeless and the hungry who came to the door. While we love our older members, we love them for who they are now, but don’t share in the memory of who they used to be.

There are folks in our church who are committed to keeping in regular contact with our elderly members and some who make sure that those who need a ride always have one. But we can all be a part of making sure the people who stuck it out (even when it was dangerous to come into our neighborhood at night) feel loved and appreciated. What our octogenarian and nonagenarian members would really like is a call, a visit or even an actual handwritten note or card sent by snail mail. When was the last time you wrote a thank you or get well note that required a stamp?

Perhaps those of us who live our lives online can set our calendars to remind us once or twice a week to pop a card in the mail, make a phone call or stop by to say hello. You can even get Siri to send you a reminder. “Hello, reminding you to make contact with someone who is 80 or older today.”

New Hours

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Music from Christine Kane’s Rain and Mud and Wild and Green

I’ve just seen one too many articles on why people aren’t coming to church. Admittedly, there are some good reasons. But I’d like to share my top 10 reasons why you should be coming to church. Others will have different reasons and some may disagree with the ones I have listed, but here they are.

10. Coming to church doesn’t mean you have no doubts about God or faith or religion. It means you have a place you can share with people who have their own doubts.

9.  Bad stuff is going to happen in your life. It just is. A church community cannot be everything to everyone in times of crisis, but when the bottom falls out of your world, it’s great to have a community to lift you back up.

8. Bad stuff is going to happen in your life, part two. The time to build a relationship with God is not when life turns ugly, and you’ve run out of all other options. Attending worship regularly helps build a relationship with God and others that will give you a solid foundation when the winds blow and the storms come.

7. Not all churches are anti-something. Most of us are for people, for acceptance, for hospitality. Really, we’re out there. We just don’t get the good press.

6. Any church worth its salt has really good food on a regular basis.

5. Churches offer paint-by-number opportunities to serve. Many people would like to help the poor, the hungry and the homeless, but they don’t know how to get involved, how to make the time to be involved, or what they can do to really make a difference. Churches offer you ways to plug in to help those who need it most.

4. You’ve got a gift. Probably two or 10 of them. Becoming involved in the ministry of a church will help you discover and use gifts you never even knew you had.

3. Not all churches are after your money. Good churches want you have a healthy relationship with money. Sure, churches need to pay the electric bill and the pastor and the youth director, but money and the church is more about you than it is about the church. It’s about your own relationship with money. World events have proven that it’s much better to put faith in God than in a bank account. Church can help you with that.

2. Taking a break from our hectic lives to come to church is accepting the gift of Sabbath. Wayne Mueller says “(Sabbath) dissolves the artificial urgency of our days, because it liberates us from the need to be finished.” We don’t take Sabbath and come to worship because we have time and have finished up everything that needs to be done. We take Sabbath because it is time to stop, and we are designed to stop, rest and reflect. Those don’t are destined to crash and burn.

1. Jesus is really cool. Even if you don’t know if you can believe in the whole Son-of-God thing, even if you refer to the resurrection as the Zombie Jesus event and even though those of us already in church often do a lousy job of following him, come to church to get to know Jesus. The more you get to know him, the more you’ll understand why people call his way The Way.

–Rev. Anne Russ

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10 Things I Want to Tell Parents

Right now, we don’t have an active Sunday School program at First Pres. In an effort to better serve our members, friends and neighbors, the session is trying to find out the interest folks in having a regular Christian education program on Sunday mornings. Please take some time to fill out the survey.

Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove, one of the authors of The Uncommon Book of Prayer and a founder of the new monastics movement, will speak at First Pres on Saturday, May 5 at 7 p.m. The event is free and everyone is welcome

Wilson-Hartgrove will also a retreat A Bendictine Day of Peace at Theressa Hoover United Methodist Church from 8:30 am to 3 pm on Saturday, May 5th. On Sunday Jonathan will be preaching at St. Michael’s at 9 and 11 am.